Still FRIENDS

A dear friend put up the photos of her first born on Facebook. My comment was – “‘I can’t believe one of us has one of these!’ :D”.

People quote great philosophers, intellectual thinkers, renowned leaders.

I quote FRIENDS. Still.

Meh.

Rant

This post is just to express how annoyed I am by what I can only call the dumbification of my vocabulary. Sometimes I play back things I’ve said in my head and it’s incredibly irritating. Everything is huge – it’s not large or enormous or gigantic. I always bug people – I don’t bother them, I don’t trouble them, I don’t annoy them.

You get the point. These aren’t even words that only exist in a GRE book. These are everyday words; anyone who speaks any semblance of English knows them. But I just don’t use them as often as I should in my everyday language. My writing’s better but I speak like a six year old. My sentences belong in an American sitcom and nowhere else.

What’s the point of having a vocabulary if most of it is just stored frozen in an ice box in some corner of my mind? What’s the point, really?

Welcome, 2012

Fifteen of us were dragged into a conference room.
“For this group, the exercise is over. Take in a sigh if you were at all worried. You can go about your business as usual. Any questions?”
I looked around the room. One face missing. No one even got to say goodbye.
There were no questions asked.
Life. I guess.

The Sweetest Songs…

Here you go…

First go and read the comic at this link below:
http://imgs.xkcd.com/comics/spirit.png

Now read this one:
http://imgs.xkcd.com/blag/spirit_rewrite_unknown_author.png

Now, tell me this. Did the second one become more fulfilling because you had read the first one earlier? When Shelley said – “the sweetest songs are those that tell the saddest thought” – perhaps that’s what he really meant.

Must not forget

Must not forget.

Must not forget.

Must not forget.

Turning Thirty

I’ve turned 30 today.

I still remember the time I turned 13. I remember when I turned 18, later when I turned 21 and again when I turned 25. I remember them all, they’re important birthdays as per the ways of the world. But what I remember most of all is that I didn’t feel different in any way. It was somewhat disappointing to tell you the truth, they were supposed to be such big deals. But they weren’t. They really weren’t.

So, as I approached my 30th birthday and the customary F.R.I.E.N.D.S dialogues (“why God, why?!”) started doing the rounds, I wondered whether this one would somehow be special. It’s taken me the day to figure it out… and yup, this one’s different.

Thirty is one of those in-between ages. It’s too late for a quarter-life crisis and too early for a mid-life crisis. It’s too late to start worrying about an uncertain future and too early to be disappointed over a regret-filled past. You haven’t fully played your cards yet, lots can still be changed. You haven’t lost the game yet, the tide can still be turned. If you pause for a moment and look back, you can still see where you started from. You can still see that turn you decided not to take. You can still walk down that road if you want to.

You’re also more sure of yourself. Failure doesn’t scare you as much as it did a few years ago. You’ve had a few tumbles, a few falls but you’re still on your feet. You know you can handle it. You’re still young enough to take risks but you’re old enough to know which risks are worth taking. You’re young enough to be enthusiastic and old enough to be patient. Youth and experience have both planted their seeds within you, you’re slowly understanding how to use them to your advantage. You haven’t figured it out yet and you like the uncertainty. It’s what makes you tick. It takes you exactly where you want to be.

Yes, this birthday’s different. Coz it’s not depressing. Coz it’s kinda exciting. And I didn’t expect that.

It Can’t Be That

If we are to believe that there is a good and powerful God, it follows that we must also believe that there is a life after this one. But what of the departed, in this world? Are they gone from this world? Do they exist on Earth? I would say to you they do. Stanley Deeks will continue to live among us through the memories of his loved ones. He will be kept alive by those who knew him, those who cherished his gentle spirit, those who saw his life as we see all lives, as sacred, as children of God. To look on Stanley Deeks’ time on Earth, we must know there to be an afterlife. Otherwise, life on Earth is all there is. And it can’t be that. It simply can’t be that.

From The Practice, Season 7, Episode 20, Heroes and Villains

Stanley Deeks was a random character. The name is not important. The thought is.

Dance

“We’re fools whether we dance or not, so we might as well dance.” – Japanese proverb

Happy Diwali!

A random acquaintance on my Facebook feed had shared a “Positive Outlook” quote. It said – “Stop saying ‘I wish,’ say ‘I will’ instead.” I added a comment underneath it.

“I will you a happy Diwali :D”

And the dude didn’t get it!

I miss my friends the most when I crack a joke and no one gets it. No one rolls his/her eyes. No one shakes his/her head in disgust. All you guys, wherever you are, have a great Diwali :)

OASIS 2011

 

 

It never changes, does it?

 

 

The Crazy One, The Unreasonable Man

“The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man.” — George Bernard Shaw

Crazy times

It’s been crazy times at the office, trading volumes have gone through the roof. The economic / financial craziness is probably meant to stay for a while now. And I guess crazy times often also seem quite interesting. Most people I’m around relish challenges, it gives them the opportunity to excel, to demonstrate they’re good at what they do. It makes sense to an extent, when I was in Vendio and eBay had an outage, I loved the challenge of sorting out the mess. An acquaintance from BITS (now working in an investment bank) who is on my Facebook friends list posted a link yesterday about the ups and downs of the markets in the past week. The comment he added was: Fun time, this!

It took me straight back to Independence Day.

Dr. Okun: The last 24 hours have been really exciting.
President Whitmore: EXCITING? People are dying out there. I don’t think “exciting” is the word I’d choose to describe it.

Baba Ramdev and Me

I don’t support Baba Ramdev but I support the fight against corruption. I don’t support his specific demands but I support the idea of a corruption free nation. When I speak against Ramdev, don’t mistake my words to be an attack on the idea that he claims to represent. When I speak in favour of the idea, don’t mistake my words to be in support of Baba Ramdev himself.

It’s a thin line and all of us are struggling with it. Support the idea while not supporting him. Understand that and you’ll understand me.

Scala and Kolacny Brothers

Scala is a all-girl Belgian choir that performs along with the Kolacny brothers, who together are responsible for the musical arrangement of their compositions. You might know them from that haunting music in the trailer of The Social Network. That’s them.

Yesterday, I attended their concert at the Union Chapel. I stumbled upon it by pure co-incidence, I didn’t know they even existed till a few days ago. For a 15 pound ticket, I knew this was not to be missed.

The concert was indescribably amazing. I almost cried with Creep, my heart melted when they sang Use Somebody. Nothing Else Matters was just heavenly and The Beautiful People was just shiver-down-the-spine scary. Some of the originals were pretty good as well. It was an emotional roller coaster, it was exhilarating as hell. And most importantly, it never let up. Two hours of goosebumps are damn exhausting.

If you ever get a chance to hear Scala and Kolacny Brothers live, don’t miss it. DO NOT MISS IT.

10 / 10.

Democracy is the Matrix

I was randomly thinking about things and this thought entered my head. I dismissed it, I don’t really agree with it but I still think it’s interesting and worth blogging about.

Democracy is the Matrix. It’s this system of government devised by our rulers to give us the semblance of power. It makes us feel that we have free will. It’s a system of control that has been carefully calibrated to provide an outlet to public anger, but a type of outlet that can’t really change anything worthwhile. Not immediately anyways.

Take, for example, the recent events at Tunisia, Egypt etc. Those weren’t democracies. When the pressure started building up, there was nothing to control it. It reached a boiling point, people took to the streets, took up arms and the ruling regimes were summarily abolished. The ruling regime wasn’t protected by the democracy matrix.

Now, what would happen in a democracy in a similar scenario. Assume that there’s a democratically elected government that’s super corrupt. Maybe the ministers have taken billions of dollars in kickbacks. The pressure of anger builds up in the public. But that anger will always be channeled towards an election because a democratic electorate has been brainwashed into believing the high ideals of democracy. We have an outlet for our anger, if a government is corrupt, we won’t vote for them in the next election. It’s like that tiny hole in a pressure cooker that lets the steam out so that the boiling point is never reached. The public is under the impression that they’re in control as they elect the government.

But does the public really have control? Politicians stay in power by stuffing ballot boxes or by making alliances of convenience with each other or by making promises during election time that they won’t keep when in power. And then the anger builds up again waiting for 5 years for the next election. If it wasn’t a democracy, at some point the anger would boil over. But it doesn’t in the Matrix, because we think we have control. Sometimes, of course, we are indeed able to get rid of governments that we don’t want. What happens? The people who we got rid of 10 years ago are back. Coz they’re the alternative. They were corrupt then and we voted them out but now we know that the current government is corrupt as well. Perhaps these earlier guys have learned from the past, let’s bring them back, anything would be better than the current government.

And so we get them back. They shake hands with the outgoing ministers and go wink-wink. The plan of the Matrix has worked again. Don’t worry, you’ll be back again too. Give it 10 years.

To re-iterate, I don’t agree with this and some day maybe I’ll blog about why. But it’s still interesting…

Tips for a Roman Holiday

Expect chaos: It’s the kind of chaos that you wouldn’t expect in the capital of a “developed” nation. Or that perfect city that Caesars ruled only a few hundred years ago. Yes, those parts of the city built a thousand years ago are still awesome and totally worth it. But the surroundings… oh my God! There’s ugly graffiti everywhere, random stick on “bahumulya mat daal kar vijayi banavein” pamphlets deface almost every outward facing wall, even residential ones, even hotels! Especially in the northern part of the city. Even official notices in metro stations are simply pasted on the wall in cheap printouts. The metro system itself is unlit and dirty and the signboards keep pointing you to the wrong direction. It makes you feel really sad, they’re completely ruining the legacy of Rome.

Get a Roma Pass: If you’re there for around 3 days or more, get a Roma Pass. It might be worth it even for 2 days. You can get them at the Punti Informativi Turistici (tourist information centers) at both airports, Stazione Termini (the main metro/train station) or near many of the other tourist sites. All the details about the pass are here. Basically, for 25 euros per person you get a pretty helpful map and guide unlimited travel on the metro line and the local bus system for 3 days, you get free entry to the first 2 sites you visit (if you choose the Colosseum as one of the two, you’ve already recovered half the cost as entry costs 12 euros) and reduced ticket prices for all sites and museums after. There’s also a separate entry point for Roma Pass holders at the Colosseum (and probably other sites as well) and we saved a couple of hours of waiting-in-line time there!

Book tickets to the Vatican online: This is probably the most important tip. Go to the online Vatican ticket office and buy tickets to the Vatican museums (including Sistine Chapel) online. Seriously, make sure you do this. There are limited online tickets per day but if you’re planning a holiday in Rome, you’re probably doing advanced preparation anyways. So go to the site and reserve admission for yourself. Judging by the size of the queue when we got there and the speed at which it was moving, I think it would take you about 6 hours of waiting (and the Vatican gates close at a fixed time) before you actually gain entry into the gates of the Holy See. Guess how long it took us to get in with prior reservations. 3 minutes.

Diwali 2015

There are things I publicly blog about. There are things that are a little private and I blog about in password-protected posts. There are things so private that I don’t blog about them at all.

But then this blog is also about memories…

22 April 2011: The day Tauji was promoted from being the head of the Misra family to being its guardian angel. The day I realized it doesn’t always rain…

Happyness

“When I was 5 years old, my mother always told me that happiness was the key to life. When I went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I wrote down ‘happy’. They told me I didn’t understand the assignment, and I told them they didn’t understand life.” ~ John Lennon

Hat tip to Banjo’s FB status. And of course, the spelling error in the subject is intentional. A tribute to that other wonderful movie about happiness.

The One Where We Won The World Cup

When India won the Cricket World Cup 2011, I was at The Walkabout at Temple, London. I had been standing for the past 48 overs because the moment I had sat down on my usual chair, Sehwag had been caught plumb in front of the stumps. I was drinking the same beer for the past 46 odd overs, taking the tiniest of sips because when I had taken that first gulp, the ball had reached the boundary. My left hand was on the wooden table because the commentators were getting too excited as India reached closer to the target and I didn’t wanna jinx it. About a hour and a half ago, we had a mini photo session and Kohli got caught as we were in the middle of it. Cameras were summarily abolished, there will be enough time for pictures after we won.

Yes, I know these things probably don’t matter. But millions of Indians across the world found solace in similar routines yesterday when they sat (or stood) in front of a TV set willing the universe to help our boys bring it home. Some must have not moved from their seats when India was doing well. Some would have held it in because the last time they went to the toilet a wicket fell. There would be those who wore the same clothes as the last match coz they were lucky for the team. A group would have refused to utter a negative thought lest it should come true. And another group would have done the exact opposite, uttering every negative thought that entered their heads (Gambhir will get run out, Malinga will take a hatrick, we’ll have another batting collapse) in the hope that if they somehow laid a finger on every possible unfavourable result, the universe would fall for the reverse psychology trap and go the opposite way. But whether through superstitious twitches or analytical reasoning, a billion people yesterday wanted the same outcome. If there’s even an iota of truth in organized religion or Noetic theory, the Sri Lankans didn’t stand a chance.

Many words have been written on how cricket is a metaphor for life to a majority of the Indian people. Over the past couple of decades, the team has grown in confidence just as India has found its place in the new world order. As the team has conquered uncharted territories, India has gotten to sit on tables it had never been invited to before. The two obviously aren’t linked in reality but the parallels are uncanny. In the mid 1990s, when we boasted of the most powerful batting line up in the world, every defeat held a mirror to a country that was failing to rise to its potential. Every time the middle order crumbled after Sachin got out, it added more fuel to that notion that the promise of India only existed on paper. It was a little strange yesterday when Gambhir and Kohli were batting, the 300 odd Indians at The Walkabout chose to chant “Sachin! Sachin!” It took me a while to understand what a part of me perhaps always knew. Just like the Indian cricket team is a figurative equivalent of the Indian ethos, Sachin is not just a person either. He is an idea, a notion that an Indian can be better than anyone else in the world at what he does. He symbolizes something every Indian has yearned for in its leaders, a hero who shoulders our burdens without complaint, who remains accessible in his humility, who is uncorrupted by fame, unadulterated by popularity. So many of us wanted this world cup, this one and no other, simply because it pretty much definitely is Sachin’s last. He had been the “one for all” for so many years, it was now time for the “all for one” to kick in. Alexandre Dumas would have been so proud.

But there was one more reason why we wanted this cup. It’s because while we now have the confidence in our abilities, there still were naysayers out there who refused to give us the recognition we thought we deserved. When the cricket team won the World T20 championship, it was quickly pointed out that it was a new format and teams didn’t know what to expect. Ponting went on record saying that the Aussies hadn’t really taken the tournament seriously. The team then climbed to the top of the ICC Test ranking but that wasn’t enough either. Again, parallels elsewhere didn’t escape our eyes. The struggle for a permanent seat on the UNSC continues, that NSG exemption wasn’t a walk in the park. When Mittal Steel acquired Arcellor, a lot of the rhetoric was in bad taste and the Tata Group faced a strange disbelief when it announced the Nano. Even in software, India is still stereotyped as the land of back office processing. An annoying glass ceiling seemed to have been placed right above our heads and when Dhoni hit that six and twirled his bat like a Jedi, at least in the world of cricket it came crashing down.

Twenty-eight years ago, in the year that Kapil’s devils whetted our appetite by bringing the world cup home, Bollywood produced a dark comedy that later became a cult. The protagonists, two middle-class Indians in Mumbai, believed in the honest ideals of the Indian state but were trapped in a web of corruption and deceit. In the end, they couldn’t break through and the last scene was tragic. Strange for a Bollywood movie, the film hardly had any songs and one ordinary tune casually hummed became an unusual symbol of hope in the 1980s. As I sang hum honge kaamyaab ek din with 300 Indians in that bar in downtown London with the team reeling at 30/2, I couldn’t help but remember that the song had a tragic context… but thanks to Dhoni and his team, it didn’t matter.

For a billion Indians that din was today.

PS: A slightly different, very well written take from Goyal – [The Victory].

India – Cricket World Cup Champions 2011

Oh, this feeling of being high without alcohol… oh, this delirious excitement.. someone please trap this memory in a bottle, don’t let it grey out in time… there are no words… so let me just leave you with some gems from my Facebook/Twitter feed… coz other people are saying it much better than I ever could.

I will write a blog on this… when sanity returns.

Copyright for the comments below rests with the respective authors :)

YIPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPIEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The nation Salutes each one of them.. I wudn’t mind writing each name – Sachin, Sehwag, Gambhir, Yuvi, Dhoni, Raina, Pathan, Bhajji, Zak, Nehra, Munaf, Kohli, Ashwin, Piyush, Sree and Gary. You are the greats of Cricket for years to come !

A billion dreams came true today!!

Finally the mortals did it for the GOD… Indian cricket is in safe hands.. Desh waasiyon ko Jeet ki dheron badhaiyan!!!

Mr. Clive Lloyd, we did it twice too :)

Now that he has won the world cup for us, no more Rajinikanth jokes.

Honi Ko Anhoni Kar De , Anhoni Ko Honi , Ek Jagah jab jama ho teeno, Rajni, Ghajni aur Dhoni!!!

And nothing else matters..!!!

On this day, every single person in the one billion will be oozing with a very special yet unexplainable feeling! Just can’t stop smiling! :)

The whole world will drink tea on a plate now. Kyounki cup unka baap dhoni legaya :P

The world can now end in 2012. Who cares?

Whenever my father talks of that World Cup of 1983, that quickfire 38 from Srikanth, that in swinger from Sandhu that took Greenidge’s off stump, that Kapil catch which got rid of Richards, he has this dreamy far away look in his eyes. Today, I know what it truly fees like…

India are the ICC Cricket World Cup champions! A seminal moment: today, we will believe that we have the attitude to finish off the Australians, South Africans, Pakistanis and anybody else in the world. INDIA RULES!

Who needs to worship unknown gods, when you have such real, outstanding, inspiring ones in front of you? #wc2011 #Dhoni #Sachin

MSD = LSD

Pehle baari goro ki, phir haraam khoron ki, ab seeta maiyya ke choron ki :D :D

To write a petition to Supreme Court to shift Diwali to April 2nd. And also to my parents to keep it as my birthday.

One Big Thank you to GARY KIRSTEN!

Indians have taken over Trafalgar Square. London is now Mumbai!!

Witnessing biggest party on earth and its blue .. :-)

Mark my words… these 15 guys will come to your city in chariots covered with flowers. Please to treat them like Gods…

Finally we will stop showing Kapil Dev taking Vivian Richards’ catch

No, Coldplay… it’s not all yellow… it’s BLUE!!! #cricket #india #champions

Born in 1984! No regrets :D

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